Keep It Sweet
- ch3rrylife
- Oct 9, 2025
- 2 min read
What is kindness?
Here is the official definition:
"The quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate."
Some might argue that kindness is a weakness. In reality, it's a strength. How?
People who are kind are often seen as too soft or easily taken advantage of. While it's true that kind individuals can be exploited, it's much easier to lose patience, empathy, and self-control when confronted with life's inevitable challenges. Many situations can trigger emotional turmoil. How long do you think you could go through life without feeling annoyed or angry? An hour? A day? A week? A month?
Kindness requires courage. When the world turns harsh, maintaining an open heart isn't easy. It demands resilience to remain sweet instead of becoming bitter after being hurt. It means choosing to see the good in people even when it would be easier to shut down.
Kind individuals foster trust and loyalty. It's more pleasant to be around those who can stay calm in tough situations and they are the ones who are reliable when times become unbearable. Kindness disarms tension, softens conflict, and creates safety.
Being kind is simple when you're in a good mood, but being kind during tough times is a true superpower. No matter what happens around you, seize the opportunity to see how kind you can remain when life hits hard. Even if the world attempts to force you into sadness or cynicism, you always have the option to respond with compassion.
Kindness doesn't mean saying yes to everything or letting others walk over you. It's a balance between heart and backbone. It's about setting boundaries with grace, standing firm with gentleness, and choosing peace over ego.
Remain open to the possibility of helping yourself and others appreciate life's beauty the majority of the time. Every small act such as a kind word, a patient response, and a moment of understanding, ripples further than you can ever imagine.
